Posts Tagged ‘Los Angeles Times’

Help Your Child Through a Catastrophe

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Thanks to Charlotte Reznick, PhD for sharing a timely and helpful guest post today. Reznick is the author of the L.A. Times bestseller The Power of Your Child’s Imagination: How to Transform Stress and Anxiety into Joy and Success (Perigee/Penguin, 2009). She’s a child educational psychologist and an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychology at UCLA.

The emotional effects of a large-scale crisis or disaster, such as earthquakes, riots, and terrorist events, on children can be tremendous. One of the difficulties experienced by parents is that they have not had adequate time to deal with their own reactions when they are called upon to deal with the impact of the disaster or crisis on their child.

Emotional reactions vary in nature and severity from child to child. Children’s reactions to a disaster are determined by their age, previous experiences, temperament and personality, and the immediacy of the disaster to their own lives. Parents need to be aware that children feel especially helpless when they see horrific images on TV, such as homeless, injured, or orphaned Haitian children following the earthquake. Kids also absorb worry and sadness from their parents, or from classmates who have family ties in Haiti.

Here are some tips for parents to help kids comprehend and deal with such a catastrophe:


Adoption Stories

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Whether you’re adopted, you’re an adoptive parent or you just want to have a better understanding of adoption and all the ways it plays out in families’ lives (some of which you’ve never dreamed of), you’ll want to check out a wonderful Psychology Today blog, Adoption Stories.

Blogger Meredith Resnick, M.A., M.S.W., L.C.S.W., is a health writer and a licensed social worker. She’s also the mother of two adopted daughters. I have to share one post in particular, “National Adoption Month: Bittersweet.”

A brief excerpt: “Before our adoption, pregnant friends rubbed their bellies and said: ‘The older they are the more problems you’ll have.’ ‘You must feel desperate,’ one said. ‘Do you think they’re even capable of loving you?’”


What if Newspapers Didn’t Exist?

Monday, February 9th, 2009

Is your son studying American history right now? Is your daughter working on the school paper? Do you want your kids to learn about the news of the day? To be informed citizens? Then you obviously care about newspapers. And you have certainly heard about the current decline in circulation, the folding of long-standing papers, the layoffs.

Newspapers are important to this country. And they are hurting right now. Today’s guest blogger, TJ Sullivan, is taking doing something unusual to bring newspapers to our attention. Check this out — and please share it with your kids…

wolves and sheep” — with the ruling class preying upon everyone else.

It was, Jefferson figured, the result of the public’s inattention,
an inevitability wherever government was permitted to exist absent a
free press.

“Were it left to me to decide whether we
should have a government without newspapers or newspapers without a
government, I should not hesitate a moment to prefer the latter.”

Those words appeared in Jefferson’s letter to Edward Carrington,
a Virginia statesman who was serving as a delegate to the Continental
Congress. In it, Jefferson went on to say that, without newspapers, he
feared the American public would stop paying attention to their
government. Once that happened it was only a matter of time before
Jefferson, the Congress, and the whole of the American government
turned into a pack of wolves preying upon sheep.

Wolves and sheep. You don’t have to be a Jeffersonian scholar to comprehend what it means.

Yet, here we find ourselves more than 222 years later in the midst of a newspaper crisis that TIME magazine
says has reached “meltdown proportions,” meaning our transformation
into wolves and sheep may soon be a foregone conclusion, and still the
majority of the American public appears oblivious.

Many newspapers have closed. Buyouts and layoffs have decimated once
great institutions of American journalism. And despite all that, some
of the craziest last-ditch efforts you ever could have imagined are
being implemented in the effort to stave off death.

- The Los Angeles Times has killed its local news section.

- The Gannett newspaper chain has put its newspaper employees on mandatory five-day furloughs.

- The Detroit New and The Detroit Free Press have ceased daily home delivery.

These aren’t sane measures. Indeed, had anyone suggested such things
two years ago they’d have been branded a lunatic. But as we approach
panic mode, even remotely plausible ideas seem worth a shot.

TIME magazine’s cover story this week, a very thought-provoking
piece written by Walter Isaacson (a former TIME managing editor, and
president and CEO of the Aspen Institute), suggests the solution may be
to charge readers for access:

“Under a micropayment system, a newspaper
might decide to charge a nickel for an article or a dime for that day’s
full edition or $2 for a month’s worth of Web access. Some surfers
would balk, but I suspect most would merrily click through if it were
cheap and easy enough.”

Simple enough, except that, as Isaacson points out, it’s not new.
Writers have been charging readers for news since paper put cave walls
out of business, but, despite that, prior attempts to make readers pay
in the wired world of the World Wide Web haven’t gone over very well.

Which brings us right back to where we’ve been for years while, in
the meantime, another newspaper (Denver’s Rocky Mountain News) rages against the dying of the light.

No more.

It’s time to do something drastic.

It’s time to do more than join another Facebook pledge group, or promote a campaign like National Buy A Newspaper Day, or to purchase some overpriced t-shirts emblazoned with the message “Save a journalist, buy a newspaper.”

It’s time to admit that, regardless of how many readers may be clicking through newspaper content for free on the Internet, newspapers don’t matter
to those readers because Jefferson’s concerns aren’t on their radar.
They’ve got enough to worry about. They’ve got jobs of their own.
They’ve got this much time to read blog X, Y and Z, and click their way
over to the paper and back, or not, or whatever, but there’s no
compelling reason for them to stop and think about what would happen if
the newspapers providing all that news ceased to exist.

To the average reader wolves and sheep are little more than characters in a fairy tale.

It’s not that Americans don’t care. It’s simply a matter of human
nature. Until the discomfort reaches the readers — at which point it
will be too late — there’s no motivation for them to get involved in
finding a solution.

Clearly newspapers can’t solve this alone. They’ve had years.
They’re lost. And, at this stage, asking for directions isn’t enough to
put them back on track.

Now is the time for newspapers to do something proactive; time for them to demonstrate what life would be like without them.

It’s time for every daily newspaper in the United States, in
cooperation with the Associated Press, to shut down their free Web
sites for one week.

Yes. Shut it down. Blank screen. Nothing.

Of course, news would still be reported daily in every newspaper’s
printed product. No editor, or reporter or publication would dare shirk
their watchdog responsibilities. This isn’t about stopping the presses.

But the Web? People can do without news on the Web for a week. They
won’t like it. They’ll complain about it. But, that’s exactly what has
to happen before they can be expected to care.

Pulling the plug gets their attention.

So, here’s the proposal: At the stroke of midnight on Independence Day, Saturday July 4, all daily newspapers ought to switch off their Web sites until Friday, July 10.

Call it “A Week Without a Virtual Newspaper.” Call it crazy. Call it
costly. Call it whatever you want, but it’s no more drastic a measure
than asking people to work for free.

A move like this puts the crisis where it ought to be, front and
center at the top of every newscast. It makes it impossible for anyone
to deny where the majority of news content comes from, and why it
matters. For without virtual newspapers, what would Drudge report? What would Huffington post? What would Google News and Yahoo News and all those cut-and-paste blogs that get so much of their material from newspapers have to offer if newspapers went away?

Not that there’s anything wrong with public affairs blogs, aggregate
news sites, or any other online entity that makes use of newspaper
reports. The point of pulling the plug for one week isn’t to harm them,
but to emphasize the origin of all that news content, and why everyone
should care about protecting that source.

Pulling the plug is perhaps the only way to make people outside of
journalism sit up and take notice that this isn’t about jobs in
journalism, but American Democracy.

It’s about wolves and sheep. Wolves and sheep.

The petition is available online at this link.

- TJ Sullivan

Sexy Halloween Costumes for Girls: Where Should Parents Draw The Line?

Monday, October 27th, 2008

I still remember seeing her when my now-seventh-grade son was in first grade: the 6-year-old girl in the midriff-baring Britney Spears Halloween costume, tossing her hair and trying to give off a decidedly sexy-teen vibe.

She was SIX. And I remember thinking to myself, even then: “This girl will be in trouble someday.”

Never mind that the elementary school allowed her to strut her stuff in the school Halloween parade, in obvious violation of the stated Halloween dress code. Where were this girl’s parents? And what were they thinking?

In today’s Los Angeles Times, Melissa Healy’s article, Sexy Halloween Costumes… For Little Girls? talks about titillating Halloween outfits being marketed to kids. It’s a trend that’s picking up even more steam this year, apparently.

What’s a parent to do? Check out the article and tell us what you think.

When Life Spins You Around

Monday, February 25th, 2008

On Super Bowl Sunday, 2003, a drunk driver changed Woody Woodburn’s life forever.

The journalist and father of two was covering the big game as a sports columnist for the Torrance, California Daily Breeze. "A few
hours after the Tampa Bay Buccaneers turned the Oakland Raiders into
twisted, total wreckage, 48-21, an uninsured drunk driver did the same
to my Honda Accord," he says.

The accident changed not only Woodburn’s body, but also his career and his relationship with his family — to the point where he now calls that day "a blessing."

I’m honored to share his story, which recently ran as an essay in the Los Angeles Times. Check it out here.